I know Im going into unknown unsafe uncharted territories and I wud be probably juz as uninsightful after I finish this post. But I was kinda puzzled that I have never publicly commented abt gals n women in this blog, even though I have known quite a few..and quite a few guys think "something something" of me. So here it goes.
Women dont know wht they want. If they know what they want, they dont know how much they want. If they know how much they want, they dont know how to get it. And if they do know everything, they wont tell. But they want it from others, just the way they want it.
I have this hypothesis that "An object of a given complexity will never be able to fully comprehend an object of the same or higher complexity". This when applied to our brain shud tell us tht we can never hope to fully comprehend our brain. However, a certain genre of human kind dont seem to accept this.
Given the relative frequency of definitive answers to "edhavadhu", "something", "whatever", it is an even more Herculean task to comprehend. Also, all girls are very well versed in the cryptic language. Its quite stunning how they expect all guys to have ESP powers and decipher their codes instantaneously. Else, they feel that the guys are not understanding them and they have been misled, manipulated, cheated n so on.
That leads to a very interesting question. Why are guys always precise, definitive and girls are often vague and un-fathomable. Guys see 16 colors, girls see 256. Guys see evidence, girls see circumstances. Guys are procedural, but girls are artistic. You cant define art can u? ;) And thanks to a very enlightening 30 mins of discovery yday, Guys are also built to be very precise when it comes to sex, namely start-fill-empty-done, while girls are very vague about what they want in that as well. On a more down-to-everyday scale, why do women like cooking, arts and housekeeping n other stuff, while men are more bent on gaming, hunting, sports where precision is of high importance.
Im not stereotyping the genders in any way nor am I saying that one thing is better than the other, but Im juz wondering if there is a hidden truth behind the way things are. Are we meant to be that way? If so, whats the logic? Even the Chaos theory supports this. There must be an order in the otherwise insane world of guys n gals.
So whats the answer to the question? And the answer is...there is no precise answer. So thats why men cant find it out. Its vague and the artistic minds of women tend to articulate the answer in such a magnitude that they will never be able to decipher, in essence making it even more vague. So its like the universe. You try to quantify it and you realise that you will never reach the end of it. You try to qualify it in vague terms like God and Mind, and none will get to the bottom of it.
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Very True,
Because Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus! They are as different as they can be.!!
To be serious, the only difference between male and female is the Reproductory System. The hormones and the related enzymes cause it. Hence all of the differences u have mentioned can be traced back to the Basic Sexual Instinct differences between Male and Females
Never expected this kinda piece from u!
Nathan, I think its much more than the basal instinct. You being a man, are trying to factualise the complex emotions, just like what Diacovery tried to do yesterday. But my feeling is that there is a much deeper interaction that cant be explained academically.
Well, that doesnt give me much clues as to whether u liked it or not princess (intuition bordering on the latter), but I have tried to make it as factual as possible. I am not biased towards any gender, but I am also pretty curious by birth to know why things are the way they are :P)
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Yes, Indeed! Im a Microsoft Certified Professional :P
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Collective unconscious and social conditioning could be the base for these differences and it looks like there is a slow change in the social conditioning process
whoa...who said women like cooking???? I think a lot of the differences arise from the way men and women are expected to behave..they simply comply with expectations...wait a sec paavai already said that...in bigger words ....I agree;))
And by the way who said its women who want and want...men hanker after things all the time too!
hey did something hit ur head all of a sudden...
haha..so when was the last time I saw the moodevi comment on the same post? ;) Welcome bak to my humble abode! I juz wanted to pen my thots down...oops, i slept off inbetween this comment, so will continue when Im saner.
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